When you feel low & upset after every interaction to certain people, this is the first sign to pay attention towards. They drain your energy, hamper your peace, create self-doubts and pull you down taking away from the growth. Not everyone deserves to be close to us. Let’s recognize the below traits:
- The energy Vampire, 2) Pathological Liar, 3) Joy killers, 4) Manipulators, 5) Friendship in disguise, 6) Green- eyed ,7) The adamants 8) The unapologetic toxic person.
Below is the detailed explanation:
- The energy drainer:
if you have the people around who dwells on drama, attention & end in creating chaos, it’s a red flag you are among toxicity. They seek attention & prefer to talk about themselves alone. They are poor listener & less bothered about other’s feelings.
- Pathological liar:
It’s a chronic behavior of a person where they lie without reasons & intentions, they lie even when it’s not required. Such people are threat to the honesty & integrity. Associating with them can certainly keep you in miserable situation.
- Joy killers:
When you find someone coming with negative talks or finding flaws in moment of celebration, you must distance from such people. They are not pure hearted to accept the happiness of others. they fail to see the sacrifices & hard work kept behind & get jealous which they express by killing the joy of others.
- Manipulators:
This category knows to make their work done & their purpose fulfilled. They can go to any extent in convincing without caring about other’s situation. They may pretend to be sweet & good speaker but they are on their mission. They are one sided transaction maker; you must be careful while dealing with them. It’s easy to get carried away with manipulators.
- Friendship in disguise:
There will be set of people who tries to ignore & judge initially without reason. Eventually when they find you the helpful one or if they see the qualities, or knowledge or skill set in you which they don’t have & they are in need to get those, they pretend to be your friends.
They openly don’t call you their friends & publicly doesn’t treat you like their closest one while in message or over the call, they try to win you saying, they are closest one. It’s a straight away warning to be alert from such traits.
- Green- eyed:
When you are surrounded with the people who minds other’s business more than theirs, must be avoided. They always see what others have & what they don’t have however fail to see the efforts & dedication. They are envious of other’s success.
- The adamants:
When people know their mistakes but never accepts their faults & own the responsibilities and involve in arguments to prove themselves right are the adamants one. They eat your energy & drains you. Identifying them & keeping yourself away from them is good for your emotional well-being.
- The unapologetic toxic person:
They are the actual toxicity, identifying them doesn’t require additional efforts. you can sense them in their behavior. They interrupt you when you are saying something positive & bring the negative points. They see only the negative aspect of the situation & try to upset you and most importantly, they dot accept their wrong doings & never feel sorry even after harming you. They cook stories out of nothing to put others down. They are fake story maker & originator. Keeping them away helps you to grow in life.